Finding “the one” is undeniably difficult. Everyone wants to know if who they’re with is the right person for them, but most importantly, they want to be able to know for sure. As it turns out, science might be able to provide an answer when it comes to find your soulmate, and it has to do with actual, physical signs felt by the body. Feeling butterflies in your stomach when you’re around the person you love might actually be a good indicator, according to science.
As was stated before, there are some physical signs that they body will experience when you find “the one.” These signs might vary from person to person, but generally everyone will be able to experience them when they’re with the right person. Here are six signs that you’ve found the person who’s right for you.
1. You Feel Optimistic
If you’re in a relationship where you feel depressed, chances are that it isn’t the relationship for you.
The right person will make you feel optimistic in regards to the future; they support your hopes and dreams rather than push them to the side. Life is better when the glass is half full, and you want to be with someone who helps you see that.
2. You Feel Like Yourself
You can’t help but go through life putting up a front for people. Whether it’s your career or your personal life, you put of a façade to hide weaknesses around the people you don’t trust to the fullest extent. However, this shouldn’t be the case with your soulmate; you need to be able to be yourself. If you’re with someone who makes you feel like you, stick with them.
3. You Feel Healthy
If you’ve found the one, you’ll feel healthier overall.
You’ll have a better outlook on life, you’ll be able to express yourself emotionally through both good and bad times, and you’ll want to make smarter choices for the sake of longevity. These are all things that make your life healthier both mentally and physically.
4. You Feel Empathetic
Empathy is a sign that someone is extremely important to you. When your loved one hurts, you hurt too, which is a sign they’re the “the one.” You’ll know you’ve found the one when you can’t bear to see the hurt, no matter the reason. You’ll feel like trading places with them so that you can suffer in their stead.
5. You Feel Calm
When you’re in their presence, you’ll feel an overwhelming sense of calm. It won’t matter what you have to do the next day or even in the next moment, you’ll feel like things will work out the way they need to. This is something that people rarely experience in life, but something they look for forever.
If you’ve found it, keep it.
6. You Feel a Need
Strong emotions produce physical symptoms in the body, and when you feel a need to be around a person mentally, emotionally, and physically, you’ve found someone worth holding onto. Some people will tell you that you shouldn’t need anyone, but this is a different kind of need, almost like an ache; you don’t need anything specifically, just their presence.